投诉 阅读记录

第1章

FormerlyPresidentofWellesleyCollegeToalargelyincreasingnumberofyounggirlscollegedoorsareopeningeveryyear。Everyyearaddstothenumberofmenwhofeelasafriendofmine,asuccessfullawyerinagreatcity,feltwhenintalkingofthefutureofhisfourlittlechildrenhesaid,"Forthetwoboysitisnotsoserious,butIliedownatnightafraidtodieandleavemydaughtersonlyabankaccount。"Yearbyyear,too,theexperiencesoflifeareteachingmothersthathappinessdoesnotnecessarilycometotheirdaughterswhenaccountsarelargeandbanksaresound,butthatonthecontrarytheytakegraveriskswhentheytrusteverythingtoaccumulatedwealthandthechanceofahappymarriage。OurAmericangirlsthemselvesarebecomingawarethattheyneedthestimulus,thediscipline,theknowledge,theinterestsofthecollegeinadditiontotheschool,iftheyaretopreparethemselvesforthemostserviceablelives。

Buttherearestillparentswhosay,"Thereisnoneedthatmydaughtershouldteach;thenwhyshouldshegotocollege?"Iwillnotreplythatcollegetrainingisalifeinsuranceforagirl,apledgethatshepossessesthedisciplinedabilitytoearnalivingforherselfandothersincaseofneed,forIprefertoinsistontheimportanceofgivingeverygirl,nomatterwhatherpresentcircumstances,aspecialtraininginsomeonethingbywhichshecanrendersocietyservice,notamateurbutofanexpertsort,andservicetooforwhichitwillbewillingtopayaprice。

Thenumberoffamilieswillsurelyincreasewhowillfollowtheexampleofaneminentbankerwhosedaughtershavebeengiveneachherspecialty。Onehaschosenmusic,andhasgonefarwiththebestmastersinthiscountryandinEurope,sofarthatshenowholdsahighrankamongmusiciansathomeandabroad。Anotherhastakenart,andhasnotbeencontenttopaintprettygiftsforherfriends,butinthestudiosofNewYork,Munich,andParis,shehaswontherighttobecalledanartist,andinherstudioathometopaintportraitswhichhaveamarketvalue。

Athirdhasprovedthatshecanearnherliving,ifneedbe,byherexquisitejellies,preserves,andsweetmeats。Yetthehouseinthemountains,thehousebythesea,andthefriendsinthecityarenotneglected,noraretheseyoungwomenfoundlessattractivebecauseoftheirspecialaccomplishments。

Whileitisnottruethatallgirlsshouldgotocollegeanymorethanthatallboysshouldgo,itisneverthelesstruethattheyshouldgoingreaternumbersthanatpresent。Theyfailtogobecausethey,theirparentsandtheirteachers,donotseeclearlythepersonalbenefitsdistinctfromthecommercialvalueofacollegetraining。Iwishheretodiscussthesebenefits,theselargergiftsofthecollegelife,——whattheymaybe,andforwhomtheyarewaiting。

Itisundoubtedlytruethatmanygirlsaretotallyunfittedbyhomeandschoollifeforavaluablecollegecourse。Thesejoysandsuccesses,thesehighinterestsandfriendships,arenotfortheself-consciousandnervousinvalid,norforherwhointheexuberanceofyouthrecklesslyignoresthelawsofahealthylife。

ThegoodsocietyofscholarsandoflibrariesandlaboratorieshasnoplaceandnoattractionforherwhofindsnomessageinPlato,nobeautyinmathematicalorder,andwhoneverlongstoknowthemeaningofthestarsoverherheadortheflowersunderherfeet。Neitherwillthefineropportunitiesofcollegelifeappealtoonewho,untilsheiseighteen(istheresuchagirlinthiscountry?),hasfeltnopassionfortheserviceofothers,nodesiretoknowifthroughhistoryorphilosophy,oranystudyofthelawsofsociety,shecanlearnwhytheworldissosad,sohard,soselfishasshefindsit,evenwhenshelooksuponitfromthemostshelteredlife。No,thecollegecannotbe,shouldnottrytobe,asubstituteforthehospital,reformatoryorkindergarten。

Todoitsbestworkitshouldbeorganizedforthestrong,notfortheweak;forthehigh-minded,self-controlled,generous,andcourageousspirits,notfortheindifferent,thedull,theidle,orthosewhoarealreadyformingtheircharactersontheamusementtheoryoflife。Allthesepervertedyoungpeoplemay,andoftendo,getlargebenefitandinvigoration,newideals,andunselfishpurposesfromtheirfouryears"companionshipwithteachersandcomradesofahigherphysical,mental,andmoralstaturethantheirown。IhaveseengirlschangesomuchincollegethatIhavewonderediftheirfriendsathomewouldknowthem,——thevoice,thecarriage,theunconsciousmanner,alltellingastoryofnewtastesandhabitsandlovesandinterests,thathadwroughtoutinverytruthanewcreature。YetinspiteofthisIhavesometimesthoughtthatincollegemorethanelsewheretheoldlawholds,"Tohimthathathshallbegivenandheshallhaveabundance,butfromhimwhohathnotshallbetakenawayeventhatwhichheseemethtohave。"Foritistheyounglifewhichisopenandpreparedtoreceivewhichobtainsthegraciousandupliftinginfluencesofcollegedays。What,then,forsuchpersonsaretherichandabidingrewardsofstudyincollegeoruniversity?

Pre-eminentlythecollegeisaplaceofeducation。Thatisthegroundofitsbeing。Wegotocollegetoknow,assuredthatknowledgeissweetandpowerful,thatagoodeducationemancipatesthemindandmakesuscitizensoftheworld。Nocollegewhichdoesnotthoroughlyeducatecanbecalledgood,nomatterwhatelseitdoes。Nostudentwhofailstogetalittleknowledgeonmanysubjects,andmuchknowledgeonsome,canbesaidtohavesucceeded,whateverotheradvantagesshemayhavefoundbytheway。Itisabeautifulandsignificantfactthatinalltimestheyearsoflearninghavebeenalsotheyearsofromance。Thosewholovegirlsandboyspraythatourcollegesmaybehomesofsoundlearning,forknowledgeistheconditionofeverycollegeblessing。"Letnomanincapableofmathematicsenterhere,"PlatoisreportedtohaveinscribedoverhisAcademydoor。"Letnoonetowhomhardstudyisrepulsivehopeforanythingfromus,"Americancollegesmightparaphrase。AccordinglyinmytalktodayIshallsaylittleofthedirectbenefitsofknowledgewhichthecollegeaffords。

Thesemaybeassumed。Itisontheiraccountthatoneknocksatthecollegedoor。Butseekingthisfirst,agoodmanyotherthingsareadded。Iwanttopointoutsomeofthesecollateraladvantagesofgoingtocollege,orrathertodrawattentiontosomeofthemanyformsinwhichthewinningofknowledgepresentsitself。

Thefirstoftheseishappiness。Everybodywants"agoodtime,"

especiallyeverygirlinherteens。Agoodtime,itistrue,doesnotalwaysintheseyearsmeanwhatitwillmeanbyandby,anymorethanthegirlofeighteenplayswiththedollwhichentrancedthechildofeight。Ittakessometimetodiscoverthatworkisthebestsortofplay,andsomepeopleneverdiscoveritatall。

Butwhenmothersasksuchquestionsasthese:"HowcanImakemydaughterhappy?""HowcanIgiveherthebestsociety?""Howcanshehaveagoodtime?"theanswerinmostcasesissimple。Sendhertocollege,——toalmostanycollege。Sendherbecausethereisnootherplacewherebetweeneighteenandtwenty-twosheissolikelytohaveagenuinelygoodtime。Merelyforgoodtimes,forromance,forsociety,collegelifeoffersunequalledopportunities。

Ofcoursenoidlepersoncanpossiblybehappy,evenforaday,norshewhomakesabusinessoftryingtoamuseherself。Forfullhappiness,thoughitsspringsarewithin,wewanthealthandfriendsandworkandobjectsofaspiration。"Welivebyadmiration,hope,andlove,"saysWordsworth。Thecollegeaboundsinallthree。

Inthecollegetimenewpowersaresprouting,andintelligence,merriment,truthfulnessandgenerosityaremorenaturalthantheoppositequalitiesoftenbecomeinlateryears。Anexhilaratingatmospherepervadestheplace。Wewhoareinitallthetimefeelthatweliveatthefountainofperpetualyouth,andthosewhotakebutafouryears"bathinitbecomemorecheerful,strong,andfullofpromisethantheyareeverlikelytofindthemselvesagain;foracollegeisakindofcompendiumofthethingsthatmostmenlongfor。Itisusuallyplantedinabeautifulspot,thecharmoftreesandwaterbeingaddedtostatelybuildingsandstimulatingworksofart。Venerableassociationsofthepasthallowitshalls。Leadersinthestirringworldofto-dayreturnateachcommencementtosharethefreshlifeofthenewclass。

Books,pictures,music,collections,appliancesineveryfield,learnedteachers,mirthfulfriends,athleticsforholidays,thebestwordsofthebestmenforholydays,——allarehere。Nowonderthatmenlookbackupontheircollegelifeasuponhalcyondays,theromanticperiodofyouth。NowonderthatDr。Holmes"spoemstohisHarvardclassmatesfindanechoincollegereunionseverywhere;andgray-hairedmen,whooutsidethenarrowingcircleofhomehavenotheardtheirfirstnamesforyears,remainBillandJoeandJohnandGeorgetocollegecomrades,evenifunseenformorethanageneration。

Yetagirlshouldgotocollegenotmerelytoobtainfourhappyyearsbuttomakeasecondgain,whichisoftenoverlooked,andislittleunderstoodevenwhenperceived;Imeanagaininhealth。

Theoldnotionthatlowvitalityisamatterofcoursewithwomen;

thattobedelicateisamarkofsuperiorrefinement,especiallyinwell-to-dofamilies;thatsicknessisadispensationofProvidence,——thesenotionsmeetwithnoacceptanceincollege。

YearsagoIsawinthemirrorframeofacollegefreshman"sroomthislittleformula:"Sicknessiscarelessness,carelessnessisselfishness,andselfishnessissin。"AndIhaveoftennoticedamongcollegegirlsanairofhumiliationandshamewhenobligedtoconfessalackofphysicalvigor,asiftheywereconvictedofmanaginglifewithbadjudgment,orofsomemoraldelinquency。

Withthespreadingscientificconvictionthathealthisamatterlargelyundereachperson"scontrol,thateveninheritedtendenciestodiseaseneednotbeallowedtoruntheirriotouscourseunchecked,therecomesanearnestpurposetobestrongandfree。Fascinatingfieldsofknowledgearewaitingtobeexplored;possibilitiesofdoing,aswellasofknowing,areoneveryside;newanddearfriendshipsenlargeandsweetendreamsoffuturestudyandwork,andtheyoungstudentcannotaffordquiveringnervesorsmalllungsoranachingheadanymorethanbadtaste,roughmanners,oraweakwill。Handicappedbyinheritanceorbadtraining,shefindstheplanofcollegelifeitselfhersupporterandfriend。

Thesteady,long-continuedroutineofmentalwork,physicalexercise,recreation,andsleep,thesimpleandwholesomefood,inplaceofirregularandunstudieddiet,workoutsalvationforher。Insteadofbeinglefttogoout-of-doorswhenshefeelslikeit,theregulartrainingofthegymnasium,theboatsonlakeandriver,thetenniscourt,thegolflinks,thebasketball,thebicycle,thelongwalkamongthewoodsinsearchofbotanicalorgeologicalspecimens,——alltheseandmanymorecalltothebusystudent,untilsherealizesthattheyhavetheirrightfulplaceineverywell-ordereddayofeverymonth。Soshelearns,littlebylittle,thatbuoyanthealthisapreciouspossessiontobewonandkept。

ItissignificantthatalreadystatisticalinvestigationinthiscountryandinEnglandshowsthatthestandardofhealthishigheramongthewomenwhoholdcollegedegreesthanamonganyotherequalnumberofthesameageandclass。Anditisinterestingalsotoobservetowhatsortofquestionsourrecentgirlgraduateshavebeeninclinedtodevoteattention。Theyhavebeenlargelytheneglectedproblemsoflittlechildrenandtheirhealth,ofhomesanitation,offoodanditschoiceandpreparation,ofdomesticservice,ofthecleanlinessofschoolsandpublicbuildings。

Collegesforgirlsarepledgedbytheirveryconstitutiontomakepersistentwaronthewatercure,thenervineretreat,theinsaneasylum,thehospital,——thosebitterfruitsoftheemotionallivesofthousandsofwomen。"Icanneveraffordasickheadacheagain,lifeissointerestingandthereissomuchtodo,"adelicategirlsaidtomeattheendofherfirstcollegeyear。Andwhilehermotherwasinafar-offinvalidretreat,sheundertookthebattleagainstfatewiththesameintelligenceandcouragewhichsheputintohercalculusproblemsandhertranslationsofSophocles。

Herbeautifulhomeandherrosyandhappychildrenprovethemeasureofherhard-wonsuccess。Formerlythemajorityofphysicianshadbutonequestionforthemotherofthenervousanddelicategirl,"Doesshegotoschool?"Andonlyoneprescription,"Takeheroutofschool。"Neverasuggestionastosuppersofpicklesandpound-cake,neverahintaboutmidnightdancingandhurriedday-timeways。Butnowthesensibledoctorasks,"Whatareherinterests?

Whatarehertastes?Whatareherhabits?"Andhefindsnewinterestsforher,andurgestheformationofout-of-doortastesandsteadyoccupationforthemind,inordertodrawthemorbidgirlfromherselfintotheinvigoratingworldoutside。Thisthecollegedoeslargelythroughitsthirdgiftoffriendship。

Untilagirlgoesawayfromhometoschoolorcollege,herfriendsarechieflychosenforherbycircumstances。Heryoungrelatives,herneighborsinthesamestreet,thosewhohappentogotothesameschoolorchurch,——theseshemakeshergirlishintimates。

Shegoestocollegewiththeentireconviction,halfunknowntoherself,thatherfather"spoliticalpartycontainsallthehonestmen,hermother"ssocialcircleallthetrueladies,herchurchalltherealsaintsofthecommunity。Andthesmallerthetown,themoreabsoluteisherbelief。Butincollegeshefindsthatthegirlwhoearnedherscholarshipinthevillageschoolsitsbesidethebanker"sdaughter;theNewEnglandfarmer"schildroomsnexttheheiressofaHawaiiansugarplantation;thedaughtersoftheopposingcandidatesinasharplyfoughtelectionhavegrowngreatfriendsincollegeboatsandlaboratories;andbeforeherdiplomaiswonsherealizeshowmuchricheraworldshelivesinthansheeverdreamedofathome。Thewealththatliesindifferenceshasdawneduponhervision。ItisonlywhentherichandpoorsitdowntogetherthateithercanunderstandhowtheLordistheMakerofthemall。

To-dayaboveallthingsweneedtheinfluenceofmenandwomenoffriendliness,ofgenerousnature,ofhospitalitytonewideas,inshort,ofsocialimagination。Butinstead,wefindeachpoliticalpartybitterlycallingtheotherdishonest,eachclasssuspiciousoftheintentionsoftheother,andinsociallifethepettieststandardsofconduct。Isitnotwellforusthatthecollegesalloverthecountrystilloffertotheirfortunatestudentsasocietyofthemostdemocraticsort,——oneinwhichafather"smoney,amother"ssocialposition,canassurenodistinctionandmakenoclosefriends?Herecapacityofeverykindcountsforitsfullvalue。Hereenthusiasmwaitstomakeheroesofthosewhocanlead。Herecharmingmanners,noblecharacter,amiabletemper,scholarlypower,findtheirfullopportunityandinspiresuchfriendshipsasareseldommadeafterward。Ihaveforgottenmychemistry,andmyclassicalphilologycannotbearexamination;butallroundtheworldtherearemenandwomenatwork,myintimatesofcollegedays,whohavemadethewideearthafriendlyplacetome。Ofeverycreed,ofeveryparty,infar-awayplacesandinnear,thethoughtofthemmakesmemorecourageousindutyandmorefaithfultoopportunity,thoughformanyyearswemaynothavehadtimetowriteeachotheraletter。

Thebasisofallvaluableandenduringfriendshipsisnotaccidentorjuxtaposition,buttastes,interests,habits,work,ambitions。Itisforthisreasonthattocollegefriendshipclingsaromanceentirelyitsown。Oneofthefriendsmayspendherdaysinthelaboratory,eagerlychasingtheshyfactsthathidebeyondthemicroscope"sfinevision,andtheothermayfillherhoursandherheartwiththepoetsandthephilosophers;onemaysteadfastlypursueherwaytowardthecommandofahospital,andtheothertowardstheworldoflettersandofart;thesedivergencesconstitutenobarrier,butratheranaidtothefulnessoffriendship。

Andthefactthatonegoesinasimplegownwhichshehasearnedandmadeherself,andtheotherliveswhenathomeinamerchant"smodernpalace——whathasthattodowiththethingsthegirlscareaboutandthedreamstheytalkoverinthewalkbytheriverorthebicycleridethroughcountryroads?Ifanyyoungmanto-daygoesthroughHarvardlonely,neglected,unfriended,ifanygirllivessolitaryandwretchedinherlifeatWellesley,itistheirownfault。Itmustbebecausetheyaresuspicious,unfriendlyordisagreeablethemselves。Certainlyitistruethatintheassociationsofcollegelife,morethaninanyotherthatthecountrycanshow,whatisextraneous,artificial,andtemporaryfallsaway,andtheevery-dayrelationsoflifeandworktakeonacharacterthatissimple,natural,genuine。Andsoitcomesaboutthatthefourthgiftofcollegelifeisidealsofpersonalcharacter。

Tosomepeopletheshapingidealsofwhatcharactershouldbe,oftenheldunconsciously,comefromthebookstheyaregivenbythepersonswhomtheymostadmirebeforetheyaretwentyyearsold。Thegreatestthinganyfriendorteacher,eitherinschoolorcollege,candoforastudentistofurnishhimwithapersonalideal。Thecollegeprofessorswhotransformedmethroughmyacquaintancewiththem——ah,theywerefew,andIamsureIdidnothaveadozenconversationswiththemoutsidetheirclassrooms——gaveme,eachinhisdifferentway,anidealofcharacter,ofconduct,ofthescholar,theleader,ofwhichtheyandIweretotallyunconsciousatthetime。FormanyyearsIhaveknownthatmystudywiththem,nomatterwhetherofphilosophyorofGreek,ofmathematicsorhistoryorEnglish,enlargedmynotionsoflife,upliftedmystandardsofculture,andsoinspiredmewithnewpossibilitiesofusefulnessandofhappiness。

NotthefactsandtheoriesthatIlearnedsomuchasthemenwhotaughtme,gavethisinspiration。Thecommunityatlargeisrightinsayingthatitwantsthepersonalinfluenceofprofessorsonstudents,butitiswhollywronginassumingthatthispreciousinfluencecomesfromfrequentmeetingsortalksonmiscellaneoussubjects。Thereisquiteaslikelytobeaquickeningforceinthesomewhatremoteandmysteriouspoweroftheteacherwhodevoteshimselftoamassingtreasuresofscholarship,ortopatientlyworkingoutthebestmethodsofteaching;whostandingsomewhatapart,stillremainsanidealoftheChristianscholar,thejust,thecourteousmanorwoman。Tocomeundertheinfluenceofonesuchteacherisenoughtomakecollegelifeworthwhile。AyoungmanwhocametoHarvardwitheightycentsinhispocket,andworkedhiswaythrough,neverahighscholar,andnowinabusinesswhichlooksverycommonplace,toldmetheotherdaythathewouldnotcaretobealiveifhehadnotgonetocollege。Hisfaceflushedasheexplainedhowdifferenthisdayswouldhavebeenifhehadnotknowntwoofhisprofessors。"Doyouuseyourcollegestudiesinyourbusiness?"

Iasked。"Oh,no!"heanswered。"ButIamanothermanindoingthebusiness;andwhentheday"sworkisdoneIliveanotherlifebecauseofmycollegeexperiences。ThebusinessandIareboththebetterforiteveryday。"Howmanyayounggirlhashadherwholehorizonextendedbythechangedidealsshegainedincollege!

Yetthisislargelybecausetheassociationsandstudiestherearelikelytogiveherpermanentinterests——thefifthandperhapsthegreatestgiftofcollegelifeofwhichIshallspeak。

Theoldfairystorywhichcharmedusinchildhoodendedwith——"Andtheyweremarriedandlivedhappyeverafter。"Itconductedtothealtar,havingbroughtthehappypairthroughinnumerabledifficulties,andleftuswiththecontentedsensethatallthemistakesandproblemswouldnowvanishandlifebeonelongdayofuncloudedbliss。Ihaveseendevotedandintelligentmothersarrangetheiryoungdaughters"educationandcompanionshipspreciselyonthisbasis。Theyplannedasiftheseprettyandcharminggirlsweregoingtoliveonlytwentyortwenty-fiveyearsattheutmost,andhadconsequentlynoneedofthewealthyintereststhatshouldroundoutthefull-grownwoman"sstature,makingheryoungerinfeelingatfortythanattwenty,andmorelovelyandadmiredateightythanateither。

Emersoninwritingofbeautydeclaresthat"thesecretofuglinessconsistsnotinirregularoutline,butinbeinguninteresting。Weloveanyforms,howeverugly,fromwhichgreatqualitiesshine。

Ifcommand,eloquence,art,orinventionexistsinthemostdeformedperson,alltheaccidentsthatusuallydisplease,please,andraiseesteemandwonderhigher。Beautywithoutgraceistheheadwithoutthebody。Beautywithoutexpressiontires。"Ofcoursesuchconsiderationscanhardlycomewithfullforcetotheyounggirlherself,whofeelsagedateighteen,andimaginesthatthetroublesandproblemsoflifeandthoughtarehersalready。

"Oh,tellmeto-night,"criedacollegefreshmanoncetoherPresident,"whichistherightsideandwhichisthewrongsideofthisAndoverquestionabouteschatology?"Theyounggirlisimpatientofopenquestions,andirritatedatherinabilitytoanswerthem。Neithercanshebelievethatthefirstheadlongzestwithwhichshethrowsherselfintosociety,athletics,intoeverythingwhichcomesinherway,caneverfail。Buthereldersknow,lookingon,thatourAmericangirl,thecommradeofherparentsandofherbrothersandtheirfriends,broughtupfrombabyhoodintheeagertalkofpoliticsandsociety,ofreligiousbelief,ofpublicaction,ofsocialresponsibility——thatthistypicalgirl,withherquicksympathies,herclearhead,herwarmheart,heroutreachinghands,willnotpermanentlybesatisfiedorself-respecting,thoughshehavetheprettiestdressesandhatsintown,orthemostcharmingofdinners,dances,andteas。

Unlesstherecomestoher,andcomesearly,theonechiefhappinessoflife,——amarriageofcomradeship,——shemustfaceforherselfthequestion,"WhatshallIdowithmylife?"

IrecallasuperbgirloftwentyasIovertookheronewintermorninghurryingalongCommonwealthAvenue。Shespokeofabrilliantpartyatafriend"sthepreviousevening。"But,oh!"

shecried,throwingupherhandsinakindofhopelessimpatience,"tellmewhattodo。Mydancingdaysareover!"Ilaughedather,"Haveyousprainedyourankle?"ButIsawIhadmadeamistakewhensheadded,"Itisnolaughingmatter。Ihavebeenoutthreeyears。Ihavenotdonewhattheyexpectedofme,"withaflushandashrug,"andthereisacrowdofnicegirlscomingonthiswinter;andanyway,Iamsotiredofgoingtoteasandball-gamesandassemblies!Idon"tcaretheleastintheworldforforeignmissions,and,"withastamp,"IamnotgoingslummingamongtheItalians。IhavetoomuchrespectfortheItalians。AndwhatshallIdowiththerestofmylife?"Thatwasafrankstatementofwhatanygirlofbrainsorconsciencefeels,withmoreorlessbitterdistinctness,unlessshemarriesearly,orhassomepressingworkforwhichsheiswelltrained。

Yetevenifthatwhichistheprofessionofwomanparexcellencebehers,howcanshebeperenniallysointerestingacompaniontoherhusbandandchildrenasifshehadkeenpersonaltastes,longherown,andgrowingwithhergrowth?Indeed,inthatrespecttheconditionofmenisalmostthesameasthatofwomen。Itwouldbequitethesamewereitnotforthefactthataman"sbusinessorprofessionisgenerallyinitselfameansofgrowth,ofeducation,ofdignity。Heleanshislifeagainstit。Hebuildshishomeintheshadowofit。Itbindshisdaystogetherinakindofnaturalpietyandmakeshimadvanceinstrengthandnobilityashe"fulfilsthecommonround,thedailytask。"Andthatisthereasonwhymeninthepast,iftheyhavebeenhonorablemen,havegrownoldbetterthanwomen。Menusuallyretaintheirabilitylonger,theirmentalalertnessandhospitality。Theyaddfinequalitytofinequality,passingfromstrengthtostrengthandpreservinginoldagewhateverhasbeenbestinyouth。Itwasasuddenrecognitionofthisfactwhichmadeayoungfriendofminesaylastwinter,"Iamnotgoingtopartiesanymore;themenbestworthtalkingwitharetoooldtodance。"

Evenwiththehelpofapermanentbusinessorprofession,however,themostinterestingmenIknowarethosewhohaveanavocationaswellasavocation。Imeanatasteorworkquiteapartfromthebusinessoflife。Thisrevives,inspires,andcultivatesthemperpetually。Itmatterslittlewhatitis,ifonlyitisrealandpersonal,islargeenoughtolast,andpossessesthepowerofgrowth……Ayoungsea-captainfromaNewEnglandvillageonalongandlonelyvoyagefallsuponacopyofShelley。Appealismadetohisfinebutuntrainedmind,andthebookoftheboypoetbecomestheseaman"suniversity。Thewideworldofpoetryandoftheotherfineartsisopened,andtheShelleyianspecialistbecomesacultivated,original,andcharmingman。Abusymerchantlovesflowers,andinallhisfreehoursstudiesthem。Eachnewspringaddsknowledgetohisknowledge,andhisfriendscontinuallybringhimtheirstrangediscoveries。Withgrowingwealthhecultivatesrareandbeautifulplants,andsharesthemwithhisfortunateacquaintances。Happythecompanioninvitedtoawalkoradrivewithsuchobservanteyes,suchvividtalk!Becauseofthischeerfulinterestinflowers,andthisingeniousskillindealingwiththem,themanhimselfisinteresting。Allhispowersarealert,andhisjudgmentisvaluedinpubliclifeandinprivatebusiness。Orisitmoreexacttosaythatbecauseheisthekindofmanwhowouldinsistuponhavingsuchinterestsoutsidehisdailywork,heisstillfreshandyoungandcapableofgrowthatanagewhenmanyothermenaredullandoldandcertainthatthetimeofdecayisathand?

Therearetworeasonswhywomenneedtocultivatetheselargeandabidinginterestsevenmorepersistentlythanmen。Inthefirstplace,theyhavemoreleisure。Theyareindeedtheonlyleisureclassinthecountry,theonlylargebodyofpersonswhoarenotcalledupontowintheirdailybreadindirectwage-earningways。Asyet,fortunately,fewmenamongushavesolittleself-respectastoidleaboutourstreetsanddrawing-roomsbecausetheirfathersarerichenoughtosupportthem。Wearenotwithoutourunemployedpoor;butrovingtrampsandidleclubmenareafterallnotoflargeconsequence。Ourserious,non-producingclassesarechieflywomen。ItistheregularambitionofthechivalrousAmericantomakeallthewomenwhodependonhimsocomfortablethattheyneeddonothingforthemselves。Machineryhastakennearlyalltheformeroccupationsofwomenoutofthehomeintotheshopandfactory。Widespreadwealthandcomfort,andtheinheritedtheorythatitisnotwellforthewomantoearnmoneysolongasfatherorbrotherscansupporther,havebroughtaboutaconditionofthingsinwhichthereissocialdanger,unlesswiththelargerleisurearegivenhighandenduringinterests。Tohealthespeciallythereisgreatdanger,fornothingbreaksdownawoman"shealthlikeidlenessanditsresultingennui。Morepeople,Iamsure,arebrokendownnervouslybecausetheyarebored,thanbecausetheyareoverworked;andmorestillgotopiecesthroughfussiness,unwholesomeliving,worryoverpettydetails,andthedailydisappointmentswhichresultfromsmallandsuperficialtraining。Andthen,besidesthedangertohealth,thereisthedangertocharacter。Ineednotdwellontheundermininginfluencewhichmenalsofeelwhenoccupationistakenawayandnoabsorbingprivateinterestfillsthevacancy。Thevicesofluxuriouscitylifeareperhapshardlymoredestructivetocharacterthanistheslowdeteriorationofbarrencountrylife。Thoughtheconditionsinthetwocasesareexactlyopposite,thetroubleisoftenthesame,——absenceofnobleinterests。Inthecityrestlessidlenessorganizesamusement;inthecountrydeadlydulnesssucceedsdailytoil。

Butthereisasecondreasonwhyagirlshouldacquireforherselfstrongandworthyinterests。Theregularoccupationsofwomenintheirhomesaregenerallydisconnectedandoflittleeducationalvalue,atleastasthosehomesareatpresentconducted。Giventhebestwillintheworld,thedailydoingofhouseholddetailsbecomesawearisomemonotonyifthemereperformanceofthemisall。Tomakedrudgerydivineawomanmusthaveabraintoplanandeyestoseehowto"sweeparoomastoGod"slaws。"Imaginationandknowledgeshouldbethehourlycompanionsofherwhowouldmakeafineartofeachdetailinkitchenandnursery。Toolonghasthepinbeentheappropriatesymboloftheaveragewoman"slife——thepin,whichonlytemporarilyholdstogetherthingswhichmayormaynothaveanyorganicconnectionwithoneanother。Whileundoubtedlymostwomenmustspendthelargerpartoflifeinthismodestpin-work,holdingtogetherthelittlethingsofhomeandschoolandsocietyandchurch,itisalsotrue,thatcohesiveworkitselfcannotbedonewell,eveninhumblecircumstances,exceptbytherefined,thetrained,thegrowingwoman。Thesmallestvillage,theplainesthome,giveamplespacefortheresourcesofthetrainedcollegewoman。Andthereasonwhysuchhomesandsuchvillagesaresooftenbarrenofgraceandvarietyisjustbecausethesefinequalitieshavenotruledthem。Thehighergracesofcivilizationhaltamongus;daintyandfinishedwaysoflivinggiveplacetocommonways,whilevulgartastes,slatternlyhabits,cloudsanddespondencyreigninthehouse。Littlechildrenunderfiveyearsofagedieinneedlessthousandsbecauseofthedull,unimaginativewomenonwhomtheydepend。Suchwomenhavebeensatisfiedwithjustgettingalong,insteadofpackingeverythingtheydowithbrains,insteadofstudyingthebestpossiblewayofdoingeverythingsmallorlarge;forthereisalwaysabestway,whetherofsettingatable,oftrimmingahat,orteachingachildtoread。Andthistasteforperfectioncanbecultivated;indeed,itmustbecultivated,ifourstandardsoflivingaretoberaised。

Thereisnowscientificknowledgeenough,thereismoneyenough,topreventthevastmajorityoftheevilswhichafflictoursocialorganism,ifmereknowledgeorwealthcouldavail;butthegreaterdifficultyistomakeintelligence,character,goodtaste,unselfishnessprevail。

What,then,aretheinterestswhichpowerfullyappealtomindandheart,andsoarefittedtobecomethestrengtheningcompanionsofawoman"slife?Ishallmentiononlythree,allofthemsuchasareelaboratelyfosteredbycollegelife。Thefirstistheloveofgreatliterature。Idonotmeanthatuseofbooksbywhichamanmaygetwhatiscalledagoodeducationandsobebetterqualifiedforthebattleoflife,nordoImentionbooksintheircharacterasreservoirsofknowledge,bookswhichweneedforspecialpurposes,andwhicharenolongerofconsequencewhenourpurposewiththemisserved。Ihaveinmindthegreatbooks,especiallythegreatpoets,bookstobeadoptedasaresourceandasolace。Thechiefreasonwhysomanypeopledonotknowhowtomakecomradesofsuchbooksisbecausetheyhavecometothemtoolate。Wehaveinthiscountryenormousnumbersofreaders,probablyalargernumberwhoread,andwhoreadmanyhoursintheweek,thanhaseverbeenknownelsewhereintheworld。Butwhatdothesemillionsreadbesidesthenewspapers?Possiblyadenominationalreligiousweeklyandanotherjournaloffashionorbusiness。Thencomethethousandswhoreadthebestmagazines,andwhateverelseisforthemomentpopularinnovelsandpoetry——

thelastdialectstory,thefashionablepoem,thequestionablebuttalked-ofnovel。Letaviolentattackbemadeonthedecencyofanewstoryandinstantly,ifonlyitisclever,itsauthorbecomesfamous。

Butthefashionsinreadingofarestlessrace——thewomentooidle,thementooheavilyworked——Iwillnotdiscusshere。Letlightliteraturebedevoureredbyourpopulaceashisdrugistakenbytheopium-eater,andwithasimilarnarcoticeffect。Wecanonlyseekoutthechildren,andhopebygivingthemfrombabyhoodbitsofthenoblestliterature,topreparethemforthegreatopportunitiesofmaturelife。Iurge,therefore,readingasamentalstimulus,asasolaceintrouble,aperpetualsourceofdelight;andIwouldpointoutthatwemustnotdelaytomakethegreatfriendshipsthatawaitusonthelibraryshelvesuntilsicknessshutsthedoorontheouterworld,ordeathentersthehomeandsilencesthevoicesthatoncehelpedtomakethesefriendshipssweet。IfHomerandShakespeareandWordsworthandBrowningaretohavemeaningforuswhenweneedthemmost,itwillbebecausetheycometousasoldfamiliarfriendswhoseinfluenceshavepermeatedthegladandbusydaysbefore。ThelasttimeIheardJamesRussellLowelltalktocollegegirls,hesaid,——forhewastooilltosaymanywords——"Ihaveonlythisonemessagetoleavewithyou。Inallyourworkincollegeneverlosesightofthereasonwhyyouhavecomehere。Itisnotthatyoumaygetsomethingbywhichtoearnyourbread,butthateverymouthfulofbreadmaybethesweetertoyourtaste。"

Andthisisthepowerpossessedbythemightydead,——menofeverytimeandnation,whosevoicesdeathcannotsilence,whoarewaitingevenatthepoorman"selbow,whoseilluminatingwordsmaybehadforthepriceofaday"sworkinthekitchenorthestreet,forlackofloveofwhommanyaluxurioushomeisadullandsolitaryspot,breedingmiseryandvice。Nowthemoderncollegeisespeciallyequippedtointroduceitsstudentstosuchliterature。

Thelibraryisatlastunderstoodtobetheheartofthecollege。

Themodernlibrarianisnotthekeeperofbooks,aswashispredecessor,butthedistributerofthem,andtheguidetotheirresources,proudwhenheincreasestheuseofhistreasures。Everylanguage,ancientormodern,whichcontainsaliteratureisnowtaughtincollege。Itshistoryisexamined,itsphilology,itsmasterpieces,andmorethaneverisEnglishliteraturestudiedandloved。Thereisnoweveryopportunityforthecollegestudenttobecomeanexpertintheuseofhisowntongueandpen。Whatothermenpainfullystriveforhecanenjoytothefullwithcomparativelylittleeffort。

Butthereisasecondinvigoratinginteresttowhichcollegetrainingintroducesitsstudent。Imeanthestudyofnature,intimacywiththestrangeandbeautifulworldinwhichwelive。

"Natureneverdidbetraytheheartthatlovedher,"sangherpoethighpriest。Whentheworldhasbeentoomuchwithus,nothingelseissorefreshingtotiredeyesandmindaswoodsandwater,andanintelligentknowledgeofthelifewithinthem。

Foragenerationpasttherehasbeenawell-nighuniversalturningofthepopulationtowardthecities。In1840onlyninepercentofourpeoplelivedincitiesof8,000inhabitantsormore。Nowmorethanathirdofusarefoundincities。Buttheelectric-car,thetelephone,thebicycle,stillkeepavenuestothecountryopen。

Certainitisthatcitypeoplefeelagrowinghungerforthecountry,particularlywhengrassbeginstogrow。Thisisahealthytaste,andmustincreasethegeneralknowledgeandloveofnature。

Fortunatearethelittlechildreninthoseschoolswhoseteachersknowandlovetheworldinwhichtheylive。Theiryoungeyesareearlyopenedtothebeautyofbirdsandtreesandplants。Notonlyshouldweexpectourgirlstohaveafeelingforthefinesunsetorthewide-reachingpanoramaoffieldandwater,buttoknowsomethingalsoaboutthelessobviousaspectsofnature,itsstructure,itsmethodsofwork,andtheendlessdiversityofitsparts。NoonecanhavereadMatthewArnold"sletterstohiswife,hismother,andhissister,withoutbeingstruckbytheimmenseenjoymenthetookthroughouthissingularlysimpleandhard-workinglifeinflowersandtreesandrivers。TheEnglishlakecountryhadgivenhimthishappyinheritance,witheverywhereitssoundofrunningwateranditswealthofgreenery。ThereisacloseconnectionbetweenthemarvellousunbrokenlineofEnglishsong,andthepassionateloveoftheEnglishmanforahomeinthemidstofbirds,trees,andgreenfields。

"Theworldissofullofanumberofthings,ThatIthinkweshouldallbeashappyaskings,"

istheopinionofeverybodywhoknowsnatureasdidRobertLouisStevenson。Andsoourcollegestudentmaybegintoknowit。Letherenterthelaboratoriesandinvestigateforherself。Lethermakeherdelicateexperimentswiththeblowpipeorthebalance;

lethertrackmysteriouslifefromonehiding-placetoanother;

lether"nameallthebirdswithoutagun,"andmakeintimatesofflowerandfishandbutterfly——andsheisdullindeedifbreezytastesdonotfollowherthroughlife,andforbidanyofherdaystobeemptyofintelligentenjoyment。"Keepyouryearsbeautiful;

makeyourownatmosphere,"wasthepartingadviceofmycollegepresident,himselfalivingillustrationofwhathesaid。

Butitisashortstepfromtheloveofthecomplexandengagingworldinwhichwelivetotheloveofourcomradesinit。Accordinglythethirdpreciousinteresttobecultivatedbythecollegestudentisaninterestinpeople。Thescholartodayisnotabeingwhodwellsapartinhiscloister,themonk"ssuccessor;heisaleaderofthethoughtsandconductofmen。Sothenewsubjectswhichstandbesidetheclassicsandmathematicsofmedievalculturearehistory,economics,ethics,andsociology。Althoughthesesubjectsareasyetmerelyinthemaking,thousandsofstudentsareflockingtotheirinvestigation,andaregoingouttotrytheirtentativeknowledgeinCollegeSettlementsandCityMissionsandChildren"sAidSocieties。Thebestinstinctsofgenerousyoutharebecomingenlistedintheselivingthemes。Andwhyshouldourdaughtersremainalooffromthemostabsorbingworkofmoderncitylife,workquiteasfascinatingtoyoungwomenastoyoungmen?DuringmanyyearsoflisteningtocollegesermonsandpubliclecturesinWellesley,Ialwaysnoticedaquickenedattentionintheaudiencewheneverthediscussiontouchedpoliticsortheology。Theseare,afterall,thepermanentandperemptoryinterests,andtheyshouldbegiventheirfullplaceinahealthyandvigorouslife。

Butifthatlifeincludesaloveofbooks,ofnature,ofpeople,itwillnaturallyturntoenlargedconceptionsofreligion——mysixthandlastgiftofcollegelife。InhisfirstsermonasMasterofBalliolCollege,Dr。Jowettspokeofthecollege,"Firstasaplaceofeducation,secondlyasaplaceofsociety,thirdlyasaplaceofreligion。"Heobservedthat"menofverygreatabilityoftenfailinlifebecausetheyareunabletoplaytheirpartwitheffect。Theyareshy,awkward,self-conscious,deficientinmanners,faultswhichareasruinousasvices。"Thesupremeendofcollegetraining,hesaid,"isusefulnessinafterlife。"

Similarly,whenthecityofCambridgecelebratedinHarvard"sMemorialHallthelifeanddeathofthegallantyoungex-governorofMassachusetts,WilliamE。Russell,mendidwelltohangabovehisportraitsomewisewordshehaslatelysaid,"Neverforgettheeverlastingdifferencebetweenmakingalivingandmakingalife。"

Thathehimselfneverforgot;anditwaswelltoremindcitizensandstudentsofit,astheystoodtherefacingtootheancientwordsallHarvardmenfacewhentheytaketheircollegedegreesandgooutintotheworld,"Theythatbewiseshallshineasthebrightnessofthefirmament,andtheythatturnmanytorighteousnessasthestarsforeverandever。"Goodwordsthesetogooutfromcollegewith。ThegirlsofWellesleygathereverymorningatchapeltobowtheirheadstogetherforamomentbeforetheyscatteramongthelibrariesandlecture-roomsandbegintheexperimentsofthenewday。Andalwaystheircollegemottomeetstheeyesthatareraisedtoitspenetratingmessage,"Nottobeministeredunto,buttominister。"Howmanyayounghearthasloyallyresponded,"Andtogivelifearansomformany。"Thatisthe"Wellesleyspirit;"andthesamesweetspiritofdevoutservicehasgoneforthfromallourcollegehalls。InanyofthemonemaycatchtheechoofWhittier"snoblepsalm,——

"OLordandMasterofusallWhate"erournameorsign,WeownThysway,wehearThycall,WetestourlivesbyThine。"

Thatisthesupremetestoflife,——itsconsecratedserviceableness。

TheMasterofBalliolwasright;thebravemenandwomenwhofoundedourschoolsandcollegeswerenotwrong。"ForChristandtheChurch"universitiesweresetupinthewildernessofNewEngland;forthelargeserviceoftheStatetheyhavebeenfoundedandmaintainedatpubliccostineverysectionofthecountrywheremenhavesettled,fromtheAlleghaniesacrosstheprairiesandRockyMountainsdowntotheGoldenGate。Foundedprimarilyasseatsoflearning,theirtechershavebeennotonlyscientistsandlinguists,philosophersandhistorians,butmenandwomenofholypurposes,soundpatriotism,courageousconvictions,refinedandnobletastes。Setastheseteachershavebeenuponahill,theirlighthasatnoperiodofourcountry"shistorybeenhid。Theyhaveformedalargefactorinourcivilization,andintheirownbeautifulcharactershavecontinuallyshownushowtocombinereligionandlife,theidealandpractical,thehumanandthedivine。

Sucharesomeofthelargerinfluencestobehadfromcollegelife。

ItistrueallthegoodgiftsIhavenamedmaybesecuredwithouttheaidofthecollege。Weallknowyoungmenandwomenwhohavehadnocollegetraining,whoareascultivated,rational,resourceful,andhappyasanypeopleweknow,whoexcelineveryoneoftheseparticularsthecollegegraduatesaboutthem。Ibelievetheyoftenbitterlyregretthelackofacollegeeducation。Andweseeyoungmenandwomengoingthroughcollegedeafandblindtotheirgreatchancesthere,andafterwardscuriouslycarelessandwastefulofthebestthingsinlife。

Whileallthisistrue,itistruetoothattotheopen-mindedandambitiousboyorgirlofmoderatehealth,ability,self-control,andstudiousness,acollegecourseoffersthemostattractive,easy,andprobablewayofsecuringhappinessandhealth,goodfriendsandhighideals,permanentinterestsofanoblekind,andlargecapacityforusefulnessintheworld。Ithasbeenwellsaidthattheabilitytoseegreatthingslargeandlittlethingssmallisthefinaltestofeducation。Thefoesoflife,especiallyofwomen"slives,arecaprice,wearisomeincapacityandpettyjudgments。Fromtheseoppressivefoeswelongtoescapetotheruleofrightreason,whereallthingsarepossible,andlifebecomesagloryinsteadofagrind。Nocollege,withthebestteachersandcollectionsintheworld,canbyitsownpowerimpartallthistoanywoman。Butifonehassetherfaceinthatdirection,whereelsecanshefindsomanyhandsreachedouttohelp,somanyencouragingvoicesintheair,somanyfavoringinfluencesfillingthedaysandnights?

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